Dear Blog,
You are one year old today.
I think it is time for me to serve you a miniature devil’s food cake and let you smash your face right into it. I won’t forget to take pictures, either, to try and embarrass you later on when you are all grown up and dignified.
Yes, I am so very proud of you, and I think you are beautiful, even when you have icing on your chin and in your hair. You have taught me more than I could ever have imagined.
Thank you.
It’s my blogaversary, y’all!
This time last year, I was nearly having a panic attack over the idea of pressing the “publish” button for the first time. I had no idea then how everything was going to work out so beautifully. All I could feel, as I read and re-read and re-re-read my initial post, was that old fear that has kept me from showing my writing to anyone for years and years. Decades, actually.
Let’s just say I had some unpleasant early experiences with publishing and even showing my work to people who were not careful with my developing artistic soul and who stood to gain some things by stealing or trashing or misinterpreting my work. Also, I was young, and I didn’t know how to defend myself from such attacks. Pretty soon, I was prepared to burn my work rather than let another human being read it — and indeed, much of my writing over the years has been burned or shredded or even tossed into the trash compactor. In one rather memorable instance, I even buried a bit of it under a full moon.
Sometimes you have to go for the grand, symbolic gesture.
Around my birthday last year, F. started suggesting that I start a blog, as a creative outlet. He saw how much I wrote, starting with three pages of longhand stream-of-consciousness writing every morning, and became frustrated with my unwillingness to ever show him anything. At least when we were dating he’d had the benefit of my words and stories in e-mails. Now he was getting bupkiss, and because he is an incredibly wise man, he tried to nudge me out of my stubborn and defiant stance. As he saw it, I was silencing myself and had to be stopped posthaste.
My first reaction was, “And what exactly is this thing called ‘blog’?”
Seems funny now.
Once I found out — although I still had no idea, really — I backed away from the idea as far as I could go. I believe I actually may have said things along the lines of how I never could do that, how it would be painful in the extreme, how I’d never have the courage. A few weeks later, when F. brought it up again, I told him I flat-out refused to even consider it, that he couldn’t possibly understand, and that he was an insensitive jerk to suggest I expose myself and my words ever again.
It was a terrible moment. I was being asked to open the door just a little bit again, and I reacted with panic and blind fury. You know those doors you have in your heart, that sometimes you slam shut, and then they get stuck that way, and then it starts to feel comfortable and safe for them to be shut forever?
Well, maybe you are lucky and you’ve never done anything so silly. But if you have, you’ll know how brave you have to be to even nudge that door open a quarter of an inch. Such a small sliver of light comes in, not even wide enough to fit a toe in the gap. But you can put your eye up to it and see farther than you have in years….
I did do that, one year ago. Only because during a much calmer conversation in late July, F. assured me that no one would ever read my blog.
Not exactly true, it turns out.
Out of curiosity, I checked this morning, and my words have been read (or at least scanned or glanced at) tens of thousands of times now.
Wow.
And I didn’t once die from the exposure.
On the contrary. This whole experience has been an incredible, radiant joy. I have learned so much, about myself, about writing, about creativity and resilience, patience and persistence, about gardens and magic and storytellers all around the world. I have made friends, laughed and cried with y’all, and been told my words lifted someone’s spirit, brought some small measure of beauty and peace into the world, made things a little brighter, for at least a little while.
And now I have tears in my eyes. I can’t help it. The creative journey is an amazing one.
I’ll probably write more about this journey past my huge creative block as I come to understand it more. But for now, let’s stop all this serious stuff and get back to the happy happy joy joy part.
Aren’t blogaversaries supposed to be about celebration? And presents? Yes! Never fear, I do have presents for you, who have been such an integral and lovely part of my journey.
First and foremost, you have my thanks.
You also have a chance to win free Beauty in your mailbox.
I haven’t said much about it here, but I now sell prints and canvases, postcards and cards of my work over at RedBubble. (See the box in the sidebar.) Yes, it enables me to earn a little money in return for the hours of artmaking I’ve put into this site, and yes, I am so appreciative of those of you who have purchased items from the shop, because our financial situation has not been the easiest row to hoe lately.
But originally, I did it all for the love of paper. I once ran the Paperie at a famous art supply store, and I believe I might have landed the job when the manager asked why I wanted it exactly, and I clasped my hands together like Anne of Green Gables and waxed poetic about how much I adore good paper, and old-fashioned letter writing, and thank-you notes, and fine stationery.
I might also have mentioned how I have a collection of hundreds of postcards and how good-quality, cold-press watercolor paper makes me swoon.
How amazing is it, to be a stationery addict all your life and then to hold your very own designs in your hands? It was a moment of awe for me. I’ll be sending two lucky winners a packet of cards and postcards, hoping you feel at least a touch of that pleasure when you open your mailbox. To enter your name into the random drawing for these gifts, just leave a comment on this post before midnight Eastern Standard Time (that’s the same as NYC, for those of you overseas) on Sunday, August 15th.
If you tweet or otherwise advertise this giveaway, you have my profound gratitude and the joy and satisfaction of serving as a connection point for potential like-minded spirits. But I really want every reader to have an equal chance to win, so those actions will only be to your benefit karmically.
Now, even though I wish I could send you all a lovely gift in the mail, unfortunately that cannot happen, especially since I am relearning the joys of extreme thrift lately.
Blooming in spring, the kind of thrift I actually prefer.
But still, I have managed to come up with a little something for everyone. See that square button in the top of the sidebar labeled Soul Food?
Yes, that’s the one, with the pretty yellow flowers.
If you click it, you’ll find a selection of the best of the best of The Enchanted Earth & Victory Garden Redux (the first incarnation). For each month, I have selected a post where I thought my words were inspired and shining, deep and rich with meaning. I give them all to you again, with a full heart.
Namasté, y’all.
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